The battle of the exes continues to rage as Lee Jinglei breaks her weeks long silence to share a lengthy post detailing her concerns for herself and her children’s safety. She claims Wang Leehom insisted on bringing into her home three men during his visitation without her consent. Previously, Leehom’s ex-wife issued a statement which she said she hopes will put an end to the entire ordeal playing out in public. However, recent developments seemed to have pushed Jinglei to make another post airing her concerns where she also challenged Wang Leehom’s previous apology as being insincere. Jinglei claimed the apology was only given to make himself look good for the public and to make her stop releasing any more exposés against him.
According to Jinglei, she asked Leehom not to bring his staff members along because she felt it was not in the children’s best interest to interact with unfamiliar people. “I think when the children spend time with you, it should be in a space where they have privacy and feel comfortable in. There is no need for anyone else to come into our home to supervise”. Moreover, she also added that since it’s just her in the house with their three kids, she asked him not to bring anyone else as having men around gave her concerns for their personal safety. Jinglei revealed that part of their divorce agreement included a stipulation that requires both party’s consent if anyone else else will be coming during visitation hours.
However, Wang Leehom allegedly disregarded her repeated objections and arrived with the two men in tow, even threatening to leave and not see the children if she didn’t let them into the house. The singer supposedly also asked her to switch off the surveillance cameras during his visitation which she thought was unusual since any footage captured by the camera will protect them both.
“If Anything Happens, It Won’t be Because of Suicide”
Meanwhile, there were claims going around online that Leehom did not come forward to defend his side of the story because he feared it might push Jinglei to jump off the roof and commit suicide. “I am physically and mentally healthy and I have three very young kids to care for. I have many plans for the future to be a contributing member of society that it’s impossible for me to contemplate thoughts of suicide. If anything happens to me, it won’t be because of suicide” said the mother of three.
Jinglei had mentioned how Leehom supposedly told her a staff member super close to him not only had a criminal record in Taiwan but was also very familiar with the local underworld. She claims he even tried to see her.
Wang Leehom’s Camp Responds
Wang Leehom’s camp refuted his ex-wife’s allegations saying that the house is just next to the police station and that Lee Jinglei has an overactive imagination. They also said that if it were true, wouldn’t she have called the police? “The three people have been assisting both husband and wife for twelve years. One is Leehom’s personal bodyguard.” The singer’s team also said that if Ms. Lee has any evidence to please file a lawsuit and let the justice system resolve the problem once and for all. “At present, Leehom only wants to see his kids. Even if they can no longer be husband and wife, please consider the best interest of the children and do not hinder the visits.”
Meanwhile, Lee Jinglei responded once more with another long post of which she claims to have called the police.
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Carrots
Don’t listen to your ex. It is best to keep the security cameras rolling. They will protect everyone, especially you and your kids, in case something happens.
Bubbles
Wth is wrong with WLH!!! I don’t care if he brings his bodyguard or his best friend, a visitation allows only for WLH himself. If he cannot listen to her, then he doesn’t get to see his children. I’m on the wife’s side. I would not feel safe bringing anyone else into my home. Who knows what a mad asshole will do!!!!!
Now WLH is still holding vengeance against his ex because his “perfect” image is ruined (he brought it on himself for being a cheater and POS).
Jinglei I hope she has friends and family that can protect her, I fear for her safety now.
avarachika
It could be a he said she said situation, but during this Covid time, I wouldn’t allow other people to come in too when their dad is just here to pay a visit. If she’s not comfortable letting them in then she’s just not comfortable letting them in since it’s her place, it’s as simple as that. From the picture, I don’t understand why he necessarily need 3 people to be there with him when it’s more understandable to have 1 person.
Chris
This is just so unfortunate, but if their divorce agreement requires that both parties consent to who is allowed during visitation, then WLH must abide by it, regardless of who he wants to bring over. And I’m not sure why he’s making a fuss over it. If he misses his children that much, he would have no problem telling his friends/bodyguard to wait downstairs. He just wants to make a scene and try to paint her in a bad light to exact revenge for ruining his image.
Lisa
This whole situation is unfortunate. Even if he wants to bring a third party as a witness, why did he need to come with THREE people? Is that necessary? If he wanted to be protected, there’s no need to tell her to turn off the webcams. I can’t imagine WLH is as bad as the type that would hurt his wife (hopefully), but his actions do seem suspicious. Like she said, how can these men have helped the two of them for 12 years, when they’ve only been married for 8.
Bubbles
Right, WLH is suspicious indeed. His behaviors and actions so far throughout the divorce showing that he is not sincere about his actions at all. He obviously is immature and only thinking about his best interests. There is really no need for him to bring three bodyguards with him just to visit his children.
Applefish
Not only that, if WLH feels he need protection, he can wear personal cam recorder to make sure he has his side of the story. This is nothing but intimidating move to make her scare >_<
Bubbles
Exactly!!!! WLH is such a poor-quality human!!!
XZF
This man only thinks about himself, not his children at all. It’s so sad. This guy has the education, the talent and money, but NO CHARACTER. I don’t think he is good looking. Hopefully she will be strong, so the kids can have somewhat a normal, healthy family life.
Weiwei
Amen!!!! He does not have characters at all, he’s shit!!!! From Jinglei’s words, WLM doesn’t have his kids best interest at heart; because of his past actions. Even now he is trying to intimidate the mother of his children. A good man who has reflected on his actions wouldn’t do this, bringing people into the home when the mother is afraid for her safety.
I’m honestly afraid for her and the children.
XZF
Exacty! He wanted to bring three men into her home – make it four including him. He also wanted her to have the camera off. She is a woman with three little kids. What if they are going to physically attacking her? How is she going to protect herself? I’m assuming that they won’t hurt the kids.
XZF
@ ADMIN:
I wish this website allows copy and paste. It’s so much easier if one is typing a long text and needs to check for grammar…
Joni
Personally, I would suspend all judgement on people’s characters until the real facts are known. In a public, ugly divorce proceedings, there is no such thing as one party being truly innocent and honorable. One could be as low-down a character as the other.
Applefish
Yes, and however, he’s the one that hold the power. Look at brad Pitt, he was painted in a bad light, but he just do what is asked, what is legal, and everything went down and quiet within 3 months. Meanwhile, this WLH doesn’t seem to be quiet and staying low. “Call the police if she wants to” – last I check 2 men is enough to hold down a woman before she could call the police. With 4 of them, he could take the kids and the 3 men can do whatever they like to her. When it comes to visit and play with your children, you do not need outsider, period! Especially when it’s indoor!
And before anyone say she could not open the door for them. However, when they are outside her apartment, and when WLH has a visiting right, if she doesn’t let him in, she will be in the wrong and could jeopardise her custody of the children. He could say they are staying outside (because there is no witness and he can change his statement and said she was paranoid, disillusioned, etc). This man is a snake
Lisa
While she may have some fault in how it all came to this, I have a hard time believing she could be as “low-down” as him. LJL has no money and no power. WLH has money, people, and power on his side. If she didn’t publicize any of these things, what do you think would happen to her? He has the upper hand in every shape and form. She’s taken public attacks on her character for years to protect his. Now he’s insinuating that she’s mentally unstable and they all lived in fear all these years, or that he isn’t responding to her allegations because he fears for the safety of his children. If he really cared and what he says is true, he could easily build a case against her and legally get custody of his children back. Instead, in their divorce agreement, she gets to keep the kids and he has visitation rights. If you thought this woman was truly a danger to your kids, would you leave them in her care? None of what he says make any sense.
Joni
Whatever you wish to believe based on media postings, it is still not your right to pass judgement. I have seen too many devils beneath angelic faces, too many pictures that can be interpreted other ways, too many people who don’t think of the possible consequences before they act.
Only the facts are relevant to decide who was in the right or wrong. There is no need for any of us to weigh in on who was the devil or the angel, or maybe more accurately, which of the two is the better devil.
Yooi
Good for her to be alarmed with the situation and tell the world that she has no thoughts of suicide. So if anything happens (hopefully not, amen), people will know that it’s not bcuz of suicide. She’s so smart and i like it. She knows well how to protect herself but hopefully she has her family and friends to protect her too.
WLH is indeed suspicious, why should he ask to turn off the camera? Wth. May karma hit him well.
Sunny
Hard agree. She’s wise to announce that.
moon
WLH shouldn’t expose his kids to his bodyguards but she can expose them to her driver, nanny, and housemaid. If their assets and accounts were evenly split then she also has the money and power…..look at all this dirty laudry airing over visitations…she just won’t stop. Not as weak as you all might think.
Lisa
Her driver, nanny and housemaid are there daily and the children are familiar with them. How are you comparing that to strangers that are three grown men the kids don’t even interact with? If he was so concerned for his safety or having what he does misconstrued, he only needed to bring one additional person, which he could’ve easily coordinated beforehand. No one ever said she’s weak. On the contrary, most people are praising her for being strong and smart. And no, their assets are not evenly split. She signed a prenuptial agreement. She got half of their joint assets, which is a lot of money to normal people, but a drop in the bucket compared to what he has. He also has people connections that she doesn’t that he’s amassed over his years in the entertainment industry. They do not have a level playing field. I don’t think people should be airing their family matters to the public either, but obviously he’s not going to compromise with her behind closed doors. The only leverage this woman has over him is public opinion.
moon
where does it say the 3 guards are playing with the kids?? and since she has pics of the men, where are the pics of this happening around the children? She has a camera and could have flashed that out as proof. If WLH had so much power, she would not be able to publicize all these dirty laundry. Also, when will she respond to the police request on Yumi’s filing? Where is her receipts for this one? https://dramapanda.com/2022/01/by2-studio-challenges-lee-jinglei-cooperate-with-the-police-on-the-investigation-into-your-rumour-mongering.html
Anon
And she has a male housekeeper too.
Seriously
Airing your dirty laundry in public is never a good idea. Hindsight is 20/20, her actions now may come back to bite her when this gets to the legal process.
JJ
I’ll have to disagree with the idea of “airing dirty laundry in public is never a good idea” – I get that a lot of people think that, especially in conservative societies, and it may hold true in some circumstances. But in this case, when LJL had been painted as the party at fault (can’t get along with in laws, mental issues etc) in the media, the only recourse she has is to publicly refute and right her image. Why must she silently take this shit that destroys her image? This affects her future career, social prospects, even how her children sees her in the future. Keeping silent may be the real thing that comes back to bite her if there ever is any legal proceedings between her and WLH. Public opinion can have an influence.
Seriously
It’s not a matter of conservative societies, it’s matter of private family matter. None of what is happening and playing out in the media or social media is healthy for the children. I would find it very hard that she has an attorney, because no good attorney would let their client fight a divorce in the public forum. There are no winners in how this is currently playing out in the media and social platform. Divorce is hard, for everyone involved, it doesn’t need a million other opinions from people who aren’t involved.
DuLu
Respectfully I disagree. People like WLH by their existence exposed their children and made them public affair. He is obviously skillful in manipulating media image and buying clicks, likes and votes (we just saw receipt on media she published) and in such situation where he exercised unscrupulous behavior the only thing she could have done is to air dirty laundry publicly. She does not have luxury not to do so and behave elegantly. He does not leave her any choice. She has done well and she should fight back as he really never left her even smallest ounce of dignity and grace. He is just a thug regardless of his entertainment talent and that is what she luckily made obvious. How it would be better for kids to live with public picture of their mother who is disloyal, unfilial, crazy, mentally unstable and in reality thug of a father?!?! with all this she luckily remains qualified parent and he is exposed for what he is. For one I applaud her on doing this consistently right.
Seriously
Again there are no winners here, their children will have a father exposed as cheater and a mother who will be painted as unstable and volatile (there are already articles out there). The further you feed the drama to paparazzi or media the more hostile and contentious their divorce will get. To put this into realistic perspective, his career is gone, thus his means to earn income, therefore his ability to provide for his children. In the long term the ones to lose the most, their children.
DuLu
@seriously public figures children do not have luxury of private lives like us. With or without divorce they would be facing numerous articles in the press about his dubious sexuality, affairs etc. The point is not to lie or hide the point is to face them openly guided by competent parents so that they can have their lives. With fighting his ugly moves in this divorce saga she is exercising competence ability as a parent to face negative and publicized news. His career is gone BECAUSE of him not the aired laundry because he has done wrong things and lied about his public persona and extremely bad moves he is doing now. Hiding and lying is never an option. Children stand a chance only if they are guided by their parents. Children of public figures have additional layer of complexity that our children never have to face. Age of internet brought armies of haters, trolls, water armies etc They will have to manage that with or without divorce. Having said that she as a mother will be judged by her children no doubt, and if she did good for them they’ll appreciate this fight as well, if she did not and was only spiteful they will punish her. But that is something she will have to face. on her own when her children grow.
Seriously
😂, I’m sorry you utterly lost me when you DEMANDED that children of public figures do not have luxury of private lives. Your argument is flawed. Many public figures, be it celebrities or high profile individuals can and have private lives. I can guarantee you there are no doctors or children social worker/psychiatrist would agree that anything that is happening now is good for their children development Do you honestly believe watching their parents argue on social media is healthy?
JJ
I think it is a flawed stance to always think there must be a “winner” in every situation or response. Yes I get your point that in a divorce, esp a messy one, and one involving a celebrity no less, it’s hard and everybody loses. But when one tries to step on another in order to look better (it’s like yeah, we both lose, but I lose less), then for sure the other is entitled to take steps not to be stepped on, to be dragged down even further. Everybody loses, but you can protect yourself from losing more than you should.
Applefish
@jj Ignore that dude, he’s attention seeking lol. Don’t waste your time. Check many other articles and you will see lol
Seriously
Stinky Apple go f an apple lol, how’s that for attention seeking? 😂. Oh btw YOU should take your own advice and ignore me, but you can’t help yourself, you dumb piece 💩.
Chris
I actually think Seriously made some good points. Usually, Seriously can be pretty strongly vocal and opinionated, which is his right, but I don’t see anything “wrong” with his comments and thought it was pretty respectful this time around.
While I get why LJL has gone public about everything, and I personally find it smart because it’s really her only means to protect herself when she’s being publicly attacked by both her ex husband and the media, I agree that there are no winners this time around. The very thing they wanted to protect their children from has come to fruition because, forget about when they’re older, they are experiencing the affects of everything now. They don’t see their dad as much as they used to (even prior to the public divorce) and probably have no idea why. They’ve had their dad come to their house banging on the door trying to get in and frightened the heck out of them. Their children are suffering now and will continue to suffer when they get older as they learn what transpired.
Divorce is never easy, not matter how civil the parents try to make it. The children always come out the most affected. With this being such a public and ugly divorce, it is truly sad for the children.
XZF
I agree with people that said she is doing the right thing. That is her best weapon. When she is fighting with someone like him, who has the money and power.
When someone is making a comment or debating – it’s nothing wrong to address one’s opinion. Everyone is entitled to that equally. When someone said something he doesn’t like Seriously sometimes cursed and called that person with ugly name which is wrong. Please see the above example of what happened to Applefish. No one wants to debate with someone like that. That is rude and low. I do hope we won’t have that problem anymore. Thank you.
Chris
Yes, I don’t agree with the name calling and personally attacking someone. Debates should be civil. His response to Applefish, which I saw later, was definitely uncalled for. But I was referring to his responses to DuLu and JJ, which I don’t think were rude. Heck, I wasn’t even sure if it was the same Seriously I was reading because the tone was so different.
Anyway, I don’t condone bullying of any kind, and, like you, I just hope we can get back to a place where we can all express ourselves without fear of being attacked.
XZF
I agree with you here. Thanks!
Applefish
@chris seriously did made a good point on that argument, however, I also noticed on various articles, he would start off ok, sound reasonable enough, then went on and on, and started name calling and all ugly kind of arguments. So it’s best to ignore such person right at the start, but that’s my point of view. He does love to keep coming back and prove his point (and when he can’t (agree to disagree is never on his plate), and in the end, it’s always ugly. It’s a childish behaviour that I think need to be stopped. Hence my comment 🙂
Seriously
Oh Stinky Apple, like LJL I stick up for myself. You think you’re taking the high road, but you are just as “childish”. I will say I will constantly go after idiots like yourself, XZF, and nutcase obsessed ZLY stan Anon, you are such righteous hypocrites that I enjoy irking the likes of you.
XZF
@ Applefish:
Someone is ALWAYS unhappy. From now on don’t bother wasting your energy with that period. If I see that name – I just don’t read it.
Seriously
OMG but yet you are here AGAIN posting yet another redundant comment. You two idiots cannot help but to react to me, I’m like catnip to you or moth to a flame, 😝. You two are sooo condescending and presumptuous to assume that someone is “unhappy” because they a) don’t agree with you or b) that they dare reply to your idiotic comments. You must be reading my comments because you keep posting your long ass paragraph long replies! Learn to summarize or better yet have a concise point.
Applefish
Haha yea, @XZF, that’s why I made my first comment advising ppl to not bother with such ppl 🙂
lilyalana
lols, @Applefish, you are proven right.
XZF
@ Applefish:
I saw that. 👍👍👍
Applefish
@chris @dulu and everyone else, case in point. Seriously don’t bother lol. It’s on deaf ears and like I said attention seeking. That person is super bored with life it seems 🙂
Seriously
Stinky Apple just as bored as you it seems. What makes you any better by the way? Seems like you’re what you say, “does love to come back and prove his point”
Seriously
Cry me a river, you two idiots are constantly badgering nagging imbecile. I would not call what you two do as “debating” either, that involves intelligence, neither of you possess. You two whine more than is necessary, 😩 imagine having to converse with the two you on a daily basis.
Nano
This saga just keep on going and going…why he does needs 3 bodyguards with him to visit his kids is he afraid his own kids will attack him or something…if he wants a 3rd party as witness this could of been done better…
Anon
So over this saga!!! Not a fan of either of them! Just stop airing your dirty laundry and complaining to the whole world about your sad life. In the beginning I was all like Wahh 渣男 but this situation is getting ridiculous…. Settle your own relationship problem like a grown adults!