Despite ending her marriage to Hawick Lau three years ago, it seems Yang Mi still hasn’t given up on love altogether. The Novoland: Pearl Eclipse star remains cautiously optimistic, revealing in an interview recently that she is “hopeful, always hopeful to find love”. However, she also believes that “love may not be as important as you think. In fact it’s just one of the many things you experience in life.”
When it comes to matters of the heart, the actress admits that she has a pretty “chill” attitude towards finding it. “I don’t really put in too much effort. So maybe this is all in vain? I always feel that if you deliberately chase after it and don’t let it come naturally, love will change its taste”. It is for this reason that she says playing Hai Shi in Pearl Eclipse was such a breath of fresh air and whose go-getter attitude she hopes to try and emulate in real life.
Despite their circumstance – Hai Shi being a disciple of Fang Jian Ming and him being the emperor’s baixi, Hai Shi wasn’t shy about making her thoughts known and pursued her shifu relentlessly. “Whether it was in my previous roles or in real life, I’m a relatively passive person. I don’t take the initiative to pursue a person, especially in my own life when I feel like it’s almost impossible to happen. So really, this role allowed me to see things with a fresh set of eyes, to try new things, to actively pursue it and to see how it’s like to love so earnestly.”
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Ami
I agreed with YangMi, love can come naturally or you can also pursue it too. Love is not easy, and it takes a lot of effort to make it work. True love is not like in those fairytales that we see or in cdrama. Real love is tough, compromise, and takes a lot of effort and communication to make it work.
Troll Hunter
“Noemie Lau Cautiously Optimistic About Mother, Yang Mi, finding time for her and not cougar hunting young prey, in 2022” fixed the headline, lol. And yes I’m trolling 😈
Anon
I wonder your opinion of ZLY? When there are things like this about YM, ZLY’s news headlines on Sohu will suddenly change into FSF is begging her to remarry and MIL is apologizing. Sounds like she treats marriage like a gamble against YM.
Once YM divorced, there is no turning back. She will not attack her ex and spread rumors how much his family maltreats her and how much they are regretting. When she separated, it is not a joke, she will not go back to them and act like there are still unresolved problems. She will face her future by herself and not bring up her ex to blame because they are not part of her life anymore. ZLY divorced, brags it’s very amicable but accuses FSF and MIL day and night as if she cannot move on. Once there is news about YM finding new love, she changes headlines into FSF still misses her and she will consider remarriage. Should you share how you think of ZLY we will be glad to hear.
youshouldgetalife
Why is there always some crazy fan coming in and bringing in ZLY when there’s a negative comment about YM? OP didn’t even mention ZLY. People like you are the type that start fan wars. While I think Troll Hunter’s comment is stupid too, you’re no better with your little novel.
Anon
FYI, ZLY copies YM’s life too indistinguishably but YM consistently gets these comments while these haters disappear when the news is about ZLY. As a matter of fact I already said ZLY’s news headlines always change too coincidentally when YM has trending news. It appears to look like these haters are in fact ZLY fans. That’s why I asked their opinion of her too. Trolls will check this section many times a day but seeing that they don’t have guts to answer back already tells me who they are. They can’t answer because they can’t contradict those hateful opinions if the person is no longer YM. If they must say the same hateful words to ZLY like what they said to YM, they cannot do that either so they can only don’t reply. What they can do is pretend to be another person like you and reply like they are not fans or are fans of both women.
Youshouldgetalife
LOL See this is why I think you’re delusional. I don’t know who Troll Hunter is and I’m not him or her, but you’ve created this story in your mind that just because I said something negative about your comment I must be them or a ZLY fan. I don’t see the resemblance between the two women nor do I recall a drama where they’ve acted in together. Yet I’m constantly confused why they’re being dragged together all the time and there’s always some “fan” that’s bringing the other’s name in seemingly unrelated posts that did not mention the other. I don’t follow Chinese entertainment gossip, I only watch the dramas. So maybe there’s something going on outside of dramas that I don’t know about. For your information, I actually think YM has chosen better dramas that have been way more successful than ZLY. Ironically I’ve watched more YM shows than ZLY, and my favorite drama was headlined by YM, yet you assume that I’m a ZLY fan. I think you need to spend your time on other things than to redirect people’s hate towards someone else. What you’re doing is no better than Troll Hunter by spreading these stupid observations of yours about ZLY’s supposedly manipulated news headlines.
Anonymous
@Youshouldgetalife
I don’t trust you as well. Troll Hunter had to bring in “Neomie Lau” and that’s the name of YM’s child. Such a low tactic to bring in someone’s child into the conversation, you don’t get angry at that but you get angry at Anon first and only? Only because Anon challenges Troll Hunter if they’re ZLY’s fan, you are protective of ZLY over YM and YM’s child but you’re trying to convince everyone you’re a big YM fan. Uh-hum!
I think the name Neomie Lau is nothing interesting. What about ZLY’s child call Missing You? Isn’t that the same name of the song she collaborated with Kris Wu, Missing You? That’s more interesting to talk about. I bet the same troll will accuse me of bringing in children into the conversation when Troll Hunter (ZLY’s fan) did that first, but they will not attack their own selves or team. This news article is nothing about YM’s ex-husband and child in the first place, some water army from certain competitor just have to bring them in.
Youshouldgetalife
LoL I’m not trying to convince you anything. I never said I’m a YM fan. I just happen to think she has better dramas/projects. I’m not a “fan” of either one of them. I’m an overseas Chinese that watches dramas. I don’t obsess over any of the actors or actresses. There are always trolls when people get super famous. With YM’s fame, it’s expected that she has haters. Yes, I agree with you troll hunter is stupid. It was a low blow that he or she implied YM is an absentee mother and brought in her kid. She’s a career woman, everyone knows that. I don’t think she’s a bad mom. She gave her daughter stability by leaving her with the grandparents. Sometimes giving up a child is a harder decision than keeping them by your side and having them be taken care of by strangers while you work to support them. And Noemie is actually a very cute name. I don’t know what ZLY’s kid is named. If you say it’s “Missing You” I’ll take your word for it. You can speak bad of ZLY all you want on an article about her. I won’t even bat an eye. What I’m asking is why these two are always linked together and a random actress not mentioned in the article is brought up? It’s better to just ignore people like Troll Hunter. Why feed into their hate or breed more hate? Do you even have actual proof that they are a ZLY fan or is any YM hater automatically a ZLY fan to you guys? That’s what I seriously don’t get.
Anon
Troll vanishes once ZLY is the question. That proves the fan is hers, unless you can explain how a troll does not continue their job trolling anymore. These things happened too many times on Dramapanda. Don’t believe it, next time there is something about ZLY, whether it is related about her child or motherhood or not, just ask if there will be any hater around willing to attack her being evil mother. What you will see is, people will ask how come YM gets hate but ZLY isn’t hated. You will see questions. Questions don’t mean hate, fyi. What you won’t see, nobody will call her bad mother. Reason is YM fans don’t attack ZLY with such a low blow. Only question, then get attack for questioning. Then ZLY fans will also not attack ZLY motherhood or else it will give her a bad reputation. Thus why nobody ever see attack on ZLY. But there will always be questions and who dares to ask will be attacked. Why are 2 actress in the same boat but 1 is treated so differently from the other? If this question translate into hate, make everything in this world hate too.
Troll Hunter
You’re dumb as 💩. My username is “Troll Hunter” lol I’m here to troll idiots like you. Haha hehe this troll hunter caught two big anonymous trolls!! Best way to end 2021!! Troll hunter away I go.
Anonymous
Lol isn’t it obvious, trollhunter (a stupid user name if you ask me considering you’re trying to be representative of a troll not a person who “hunts trolls”) is youshouldgetalife trying to start a fan war and anon fell right into the trap to start this pointless argument 😔.
Anonymous
I don’t agree Anon fell in the trap because Troll Hunter really doesn’t dare to answer that question. It was a good question. If Troll Hunter hates YM for divorcing, he will have to say the same about ZLY. It looks like he really wouldn’t say. Why is he supportive of one but not the other? Both actresses really DO have a similar path. Actually, Hawick Lau was at least caught cheating and that caused the collapse of the divorce. Feng Shaofeng on the other hand, was never caught except for some lame text messages anyone can make up on the spot. ZLY’s divorce happened much faster and under a lame reason of not willing to spend time together, really inconsiderate of victimizing the child. I notice how different both actresses are treated as well, ZLY divorcing is like she is an inspiration while YM divorcing is like she is a greedy witch.
Troll Hunter
Hehe haha these two, anonymous and anon, are dumb 💩s. Trying to debate with the troll hunter. I catch trolls and these 2 are beyond dumb 💩. 😈🤡🤡✌️💩🤪🤓🥸🥴🖕🏻🖕🏻🖕🏻🖕🏻🖕🏻🖕🏻🖕🏻🖕🏻🖕🏻
Anon
When you consider her work and ambition, her sentiments are understandable.
carmen
si ella dejara de perseguir hombres jovenes, tal ves encuentre el amor de verdad en un hombre, le deseo suerte
Anonymous
I have a lot of admiration and respect for Yang Mi. She’s a very watchable actress and I’m wishing her the best in life and love in the coming year. Peace Everyone!
Anonymous
Looks like the troll really doesn’t dare to answer the question. Sus indeed.
Troll Hunter … with extra long mullet a la Dog the Booty Hunter
Caught me anther troll 😈… hehe good thing these anonymous trolls are dumber than 💩. A trolling I will go a trolling I will go, crazed fans are the biggest trolls hi-ho a trolling I will go. 🤣