Oh no. After confirming their romance a mere four months ago, it looks like Wayne Liu Ruilin and Daisy Dai Si‘s relationship has already gone sour. Having worked in four projects together, the pair had only gone public with their relationship after paparazzi caught them returning home together. But I guess Zi Lan and Yan Zhi were truly never meant to be.
Leaked chat transcripts were flitting about the social media sphere earlier today showing the actor engaging in flirtatious banter with an unknown girl. Like any sane person, the woman asked him about his relationship status with Dai Si to which he replied that they’ve already parted ways but that he doesn’t want to talk about it.
Now things like this transcript can be easily faked with the help of photo editing apps, so I’d normally take this with a grain of salt and brush it off. But what gave credence to the rumour was the fact that the actor himself issued a statement to personally apologise on his social media to the woman thereby also indirectly confirming the breakup.
“I am so sorry, I have to apologise to everyone! I’m so very sorry! Since the end of October this year, I have not yet been able to adjust my emotions, my head is very confused, and I have done very inappropriate things. I apologize to the girl again here, because my personal affairs affected the public and I am especially sorry. I will reflect on it, and exercise more caution and maturity in the future.”
How this latest misstep will affect Wayne’s bankability for future projects we’ve yet to find out but I feel especially bad for Dai Si with the way their breakup was “outed” to the public. Hopefully, she’ll be kept busy with more projects coming in.
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Nano13
Well that was fast less than 6 months …. too bad it didn’t work out …good luck to both to finding their half..
Anonymous
Why no mention about him complimenting the girl's figure and asking for contact here? His flirting with other girl not long after breaking up..doesn't seem like he's a nice guy.
He look like player who date pretty girl just to have sex. This type of men can't be trusted. Glad Dai Si broke with him. Girl deserves a better man.
Anonymous
He basically said contact him if she wants to have fun/sex but no serious relationship. NO wonder the girl is pissed. The disrespect!
TrueBlue
I read the English translation of their exchange on another site and have a totally different take. He's a young man rebounding from a failed relationship. He was upfront with the girl – are you looking for a relationship? If you are, I'm not the man for you because I'm just looking for some fun. I don't want to give you any false impression. If you are the type of girl who is also looking to have fun then let's get together. I don't see any issues here. She's the immature one. Why would you expose the text to intentionally hurt his career? He has done nothing to her. Did not even lie to her. Should say I actually don't know who this actor is. Have never seen his work.
Anonymous
That is lie character and acting like an American make. Eww.
Anonymous
*That is showing low character to ask any woman to be involved in that type of situationship and he is acting like an American male (many of which have completely destroyed the concepts of love and romance in the U.S.) Please do not become like America. You will have no idea how important love is until you have witnessed it almost extinguished everywhere around you.
Anonymous
Liu Ruilin have been rumoured for some time that he has bad private life.
Sunny
I knew my homegirl, Dai Si, was too good for him. Never liked his face, acting or attitude.
He comes across as such a sleaze on the transcript. As soon as the fan said she didn't do one night stand hook-ups then he blocked her!
Anonymous
that's a shame I thought he was a decent guy
Anonymous
I guess it depends how you interpret the transcript. I am pretty open to 'no strings attach' type of relationship as long as its mutual both ways. Its better to be upfront than to pretend and try and lure someone into thinking you'll have a serious relationship, then break their heart after.
Anonymous
She divulged their texts because he blocked her without waiting for a reply from her. If you saw the original messages, the last thing he said to her was that "I don't want to hurt you", but then he proceeded to block her without giving her a chance to reply. Even if she had planned on rejecting him, she couldn't. Like OK, you're interested in a hookup but you block the girl?
And maybe it's just me but it's tasteless to reach out to your own fans for a hookup. Like are fans supposed to think that their idol/someone they respect wanting a hookup is a blessing of some sort?
Anonymous
Has anyone thought about why he reached out to his own fan? Yes he said she has a good body but don't try to tell me he didn't think his fans are an easy target…
Anonymous
Was she a fan of his? If so then he's gross but if not then I don't really see the issue. Wanting no strings attached isn't a big deal. He didn't lie and was upfront about what he wanted. I don't see the issue with blocking either honestly, they weren't interested in the same thing so he cut it off. Again though, if it was in fact a fan then he's a definite sleazebag. The power imbalance would make the whole scenario wrong on another level.
Anonymous
She was indeed his fan. That's why it's been a big deal, less about him wanting to have a no strings attached deal. Too bad the translations out there are so inconsistent. In weibo you will clearly see the word for fan.
Anonymous
Awww …. anyone else thinking about Yan Zhi and Zi Lan in TMOPB?
Anonymous
They are both adults nobody is forcing anyone. He is a human, not God. He is a good actor the first time I saw him on The Flame's Daughter. I dont care about his personal life, ts not anyone's business whether you are a fan or not. He can fall in love and be attracted to his fans. Those criticizing him are hypocrites, you wish your idols are attracted to you flirting with you lol. If anyone disgree, I am moved on already lol